According to Cosmopolitan magazine, there are six things that every man notices within six seconds when he meets a woman for the first time. Surprisingly I thought #3 would have been in position #1 but that shows I’d be wrong.
1. He Notices Your Smile
Does it seem genuine? Does it seem forced or insincere? Do you have spinach on your front teeth?
2. He Notices Your Hair
Men don’t really care if you have the latest style or look like you’ve just stepped off the pages of a hair salon style book. What’s important to a man is does it look soft, does it appear touchable and does he think if he got his nose close enough that it would smell divine. So don’t wear yourself out tweaking and spraying into funky styles because he really wants to touch it and doesn’t want to hear, “You’ll mess my hair!”
3. He Notices Your Cleavage
Or maybe he notices your lack of cleavage but #3 is where the action is. Men like to look at women’s boobs. They’ve always liked to look at them. Cosmo says we should take it in stride and make the best of our assets but don’t go overboard. Regardless the size of your boobage, guys want to look at them anyway.
4. He notices Your Makeup
Don’t wear so much makeup that it will look to him as if you’ve painted on a new face over the old one because it was too icky for public viewing. Men want to see the real you. Enhance it with a bit of tweaking here and there but if you show up looking like Tammy Faye, chances are he’ll do a runner.
5. He Notices Your Skin
He looks there because one of his goals is to touch your skin. He wants to know if you’re touchable and will it feel good as his fingers slowly trace the lines of your body. Don’t freak if you have a zit or you’ve got freckles or anything else as long as your skin feels good when you touch it. Don’t spend hours in a tanning salon either — you’ll only be setting yourself up for wrinkly old skin when you hit 55 if you do.
6. He Notices Your Handbag
Are you carrying a bag that goes well with your outfit or do you look like you’re carrying supplies to sustain you through wars, flood and famine? Men worry that we might be high maintenance if we need to have heaps of “stuff” with us at all time. I know that most of us have a pack with one stick of gum, 3 grocery store receipts, the receipt from the raffle we bought 2 weeks ago, a pen, a wallet, hand lotion, hand sanitizer, tampons, glasses, sunglasses, mini umbrella, Tylenol, personal diary, mobile phone… you get the idea. We don’t need most of that crap on a date so ditch the handbag the size of a Volkswagen and carry something appropriate for the outfit you’re wearing.
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