Sex Tips To Drive A Woman Crazy: I have less control on my orgasm than more control

I recently ordered your Tantra dvd and for few weeks I am doing about 100-150 pc pumps per day. I like the feeling it gives me after each exercise, some kind of light sexual energy through my genital area which lasts for perhaps15-30 minutes.
I do have a few questions though and wonder if you could help me.
It seems to be impossible for me to pull up my testicles without also tightening the anus. Should this be the case or should I be able to pull up balls without tightening the anus? All other muscles in my body I can keep still though.Funny enough, after a few weeks practicing I have the feeling I have actually LESS control on my orgasm than more control. Is that coming in the practicing phase?On the pushing down of the testicles, I can pull them up but the push part for me is simply letting go of the muscle and relax rather than actively push out.
Could you guide me further; that would be great as I love your video.

ANSWER

Glad you are enjoying the video and doing the exercises. Patience and practice are all that is needed for you to achieve complete success.

For your questions:

Keep practicing. The testicles are the same as any muscle in the genital area and you will eventually get it.This is not uncommon. Don’t over-think these practices. Just hold the vision of what you want to accomplish, then practice continuously until your body, not your mind, gets it. Also, remember, it is about mastery, not control.The push is not so much with the testicles. It is with the perineum (patch of skin between the testicles and anus, and the anus itself. The push out is the same as if you were going to the bathroom, e.g., peeing or having a bowel movement.